Saturday, July 13, 2002

Hello I went to my friend Ginni's wedding it was very simple and nice. However, there were a lot of things I didn't like about the wedding was first the Minister did some serious gay and lesbian bashing at the begining by saying we are here to see a man and woman married. Like god created man and intended only man and woman to be together and in love and to be married. I found it a bit rude. I didn't like the minister at all. Also the place where the wedding was held they had this very bad painting of jesus like right at the front of the sanctuary. Then the reception was at the club house near their town home. It was small and hot and not everyone was in the same room to eat. Which means you didn't get to see everybody. But it was a nice wedding besides all of the minor problems I had with it. I'm very happy for Ginni because I really could tell she loves the guy a lot and vice versa. I met him before at our Senior prom and he was a really cool guy. I hope their marriage last forever and that nothing comes between them.

Well I was sitting next to one set of Jason's, the guy who married Ginni, grandparents. They said to me so pretty soon you'll be doing this and I was shaking my head going I really don't think so. I really don't see myself getting married at all now seeing someone I am the same age as getting married. Why do I say that? Well the reason is because one first you have to have a significant person in your life and I don't and I guess never really have. Second because I'm just not into that stuff. Third and finally because I'm a loner. Plus why would you want to get married, especially now of days. Reason I say that is because now of days people get divorced like it's no big deal. Kind of like trading basebal cards or any sports card for a matter. Why would I want to get married just to get divorced then by alone again? I can't handle life now, add a person to that it would make my problems twice as worse. Maybe I'm just paranoid. No I take that back I am paranoid, but that's because I've had so many things happen to me I tend to be. I'm probably not making any sense all, but that's just my opinion.

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